Today's tip

The more we grow ...The more time we need to be alone....

و ها قد عاد.......

أيام قلائل و ساعات معدودات و يحل علينا ضيفنا الكريم ,ذلك الضيف الكريم العزيز الذي طالما انتظرناه من العام للعام بفارغ الصبر....أيام و يحل علينا شهر رمضان ...كل عام و أنتم في أتم صحة و أفضل حال .

قد جئت يا رمضان و جاء الأمل معك, الأمل في بداية جديدة , الأمل في حياة جديدة, الأمل في أن تعيدني الى الحياة من جديد, بعد أن ضاقت علي الدنيا بما رحبت و بعد أن تركت الكثير من شوائبها في قلبي فجعلت منه قلبا ضعيفا هشا....عدت يا رمضان بدعواتك المجابة و روحانياتك العظيمة.

ما ان تبدأ الشوارع في تعليق زيناتها, و تعج المحلات بالفوانيس الزاهية, و تملأ روح المكان الطمأنينة و البهجة , و تصدح مآذن العاصمة بأصوات الذكر ,يتبدد الخوف من قلبي, و تسري في روحي الحياة من جديد و يملؤني الاحساس بأني مولود جديد تملؤه البراءة و الأمل و حب الحياة.

كم أعشق تآلف القلوب فيه,و تسر نفسي بموائد الطعام التي تملأ الشوارع, و جموع الناس التي تتسابق الى المساجد ملبية نداء ربها, و اجتماع شمل العائلات التي فرقها الانشغال بطلب الرزق.

ولكني أعجب من حال الناس في استقبال رمضان .فها قد بدأت الشوارع تكتظ بالناس, كل يسرع ليملأ مائدته بما لذ و طاب كأنه اخر يوم سيأكلون فيه,و أولئك من يحضر قوائم المسلسلات و أيهم سيتابع, و آخرون لا يجدون ما سوف يفطرون عليه, و قلة قليلة من الناس تحاول استقبالك كما ينبغي للضيف أن يكرم....

قدجئت ياشهر الصيام و القيام ,و هاأنا ذا أبذل قصارى جهدي كي أستغلك, كي أنتهز هذه الفرصة و قد قلت الفرص في حياتي, أنعم بوجودك ,علك تأتي في وقت ما و قد فات الأوان و حين لا ينفع الندم.......

كل عام و أنتم بخير , أعاننا الله على حسن قيامه و صيامه, و ملأأيامكم بهجة و فرحة J

Somethings I Find Good in Life ....2

Team Work ....

When I was in my second decade, I used to study alone, believing that I should be the best and studying with others is just kind of time wasting till I joined the university , I was introduced to a new kind of work , called Team Work .

At first I hated it, I’ve worked with totally different unfriendly people, everyone wants to do the work himself and there wasn’t any kind of exchanged trust. At the end of the project, everyone works alone, we lose communication and also, grades..

Until the thirds year, I’ve worked with good people, they weren’t my friends, but they were good, from that time I started to believe in team work , most of my skills I have now is favored to that team , I learnt the communication, presentation , how to work with non friends, crisis management, time management and of course the technical skills.

Yesterday, I’ve experienced the most wonderful team work, it was an event for packing Ramadan’s Bags, I’ve worked with girls I knew from different places, it was amazing to work with college , work, dear friends, and even people you don’t know , all these people are gathered in one place to do a very big thing with an amazing team spirit.

I was very active although I’m in the laziest mood in my life, we were working yesterday as if we were in a bee cell, we packed a gentle number of bags, spent amazing time, ad had new friendships.

I dream that the concept of team working spread through our society, at this moment we will be able to remove the garbage from streets, help to remove the illiteracy among us, help poor people and so a lot of incredible achievements!

The Equation...

If anyone asked you “how old are you?”, how would you answer ?

If me; I’ll answer him with my age, but I’ll feel I’m a liar because I’m not the kind of people who used to calculate my years using days and hours, no!

To me, your age equals to how many times you felt happy , how many lessons and experiences did you get from your life, what did you add for the life, how many bad moments do you have, and how old your heart is ?!

For that reason, when it becomes so dark , I feel like I’m in my 60’s , another times I feel like in my 30’s and in most interesting times I feel that my real age doesn’t exceed 15 :D

So, to calculate my age, I need to mention the variables of the equation, the measure one is happiness. Here are some things make me feeling happy daily:

1- When I laugh a lot and from my heart

2- When I’m greeting all my colleagues at work and exchanging kind compliments

3- When I have both “akla 7elwa” , “rokoba more7a” J

4- When I wake up in the early morning and decide to have a fresh start

5- When I have my hot drink watching from my window our employees when they get off the bus at the very early morning or watching them parking their cars

6- When I got appreciated

7- When I receive calls from my dearest friends

8- When I have interesting chats with my friends

9- When I’m looking good

10- When I’m shopping a lone

11- When I generate more bugs :P

12- When I fully utilize my time

13- When I drive and when I get my destination in a reasonable time

Those are the most daily actions, my happiness thermometer increases when one of them happens, at the end of the day, I remember those small things I’m feeling happier, and I find myself still younger.

Finally this is how I calculate my age:

My age = Happy moments + lessons learnt + what I’ve added to my life and to others + warm family moments + true friends…

The less the right hand side, the more the left one ..It seems mathematically illogical but it works :)