Yassmin’s Rules of Happiness

After a very long and hard experiences with life, I’ve discovered that being happy in this world is not an easy thing at all and costs a lot, so I decided to add something to the previous experiences with my little knowledge; and here they are :

1- The rule of “less”: to be happy, you should be “Careless”, you don’t have to care about anything, what has happened, what did you lose, who loves or hates you, it doesn’t really matter and nobody care aslan, if you are happy or sad or whatever(except too few people), Also you need to be “Thinkingless” don’t try to ask yourself those silly questions “Does X sad with what I’ve just said?”(excuse me ya3ni el shetema mabtelza2sh, fama balak ba2a be kelma so3’ayara)or asking yourself ”why X is treating me like that ??”, “my manager looks like angry, is that related to me ???” , the same could happen for mother or father or whomever, it is not like that at all ; sometimes I have a conclusion from such situations ”enty meen aslan 3ashan el nas de tez3al meneek , dol law fakaro keda te7medy rabena aslan enohom ehtamo we ze3lo!”, just try to think in nothing..it is really interesting!

2- The rule of “Mute”: don’t give your ears to everyone, always learn to make filters on words that you hear everyday, I know it is not easy, but by practice it will be ok, and I mean here by everyone (all people you know except 4 and the family), when someone starts saying something you don’t like, imagine the speaker as a TV and using remote control, press Mute button, you can simply find someone moving his lips but without any noise!. Old people used to say “e3mel wedn men teen we wedn men 3ageen”, that’s it. Of course to be able to be alive, you need someone listens to you (and almost will listen with 80% max), I suggest you to focus on 3 or 4, listen from them and talk to them, the rest of people you need just to practice with them the joy of talking not anymore…

3- The rule of “Horoscopes”: stop expecting anything from people, stop forecasting or simulating their attitude, you don’t know how people think, so, it is really useless to wait from them, and as I’ve just mentioned, nobody caressssssss…

4- The rule of “Confidence“: always keep being self confident and optimistic( but not before applying the above rules), people see you as you see yourself, if you think about yourself negatively, they can feel that easily (and believe me this is the only right thing they can feel about you but there is no problem trying to be positive), always tell yourself (translation : ed7ak 3ala nafsak) that your are happy, you are feeling good, …..etc

5- The rule of “Focus”: don’t make your life dependent on SOMEONE at all, it is really the biggest fault you will make in your life, don’t make any person -whoever he is- affects your mood, makes you feel happy, sad, or feel anything bad towards yourself. Be neutral in everything even in feelings.

Rule 5 is applicable for events too.

6- The rule of “RAM” : for people who don’t have deep IT knowledge, RAM here stands for Random Access Memory, bel balady keda, it is a volatile memory in computer, when you just shut down it, all data on this memory is lost. So, do your best to make your memory as RAM, just use “30 %” of it(e7med rabena 3ala keda me7tag el ba2y fe eh :D) , it is really efficient instead of wasting your memory on people or on their silly situations (most of them tab3an not all!).

Applying these rules, I can assure absolute happiness for you :D